iT felt love

It felt love ¤¤¤
How did the Rose
ever open¤¤¤
It,s heart and give this world
all its beauty¤¤¤
Ifelt the encouragement of light¤¤¤
agains ,its being¤¤¤
other wise we all remain
too........
¤¤Frightened¤¤

poetry written by: HafiZ

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When you open your heart you share your beauty with world but that,s scary you could be hurt badly ,so you need to feel that encouagement to unfold the layers of protection that keep your heart hidden so that you may unfold into the light......
Without that encouragement we never bloom out of fear of the consequences love that which makes you reveal your heart loves who is the encouragement of light against your being your duty is to give this world all your beauty

*//*have a Blessed time:by
~*~Ayesha~*~

List your worries and answer below

Are you unsatisfied and unhappy with your life ???


You think work pressure is enough?

Not enjoying life ???

No Opportunities for playing ???

A lot of responsibilities??? 

 Couldn’t get the desired outfit ???

Your diet is not proper???

Cant get or provide good education ???

Need luxury bedroom and resting place???

Need hygienic things in life???

Not satisfied with your lifestyle and social status???

Don’t get chances to laugh and fun???

Need outdoor eating and relaxation???

 Need a lot of home appliances and necessities ???

Unable to shop well ???

Need only Mineral Water for drinking ???

Be thankful to Allah Subhanaho Taala, Who made you much superior than millions of people, And granted you much more than you deserved, Alhamdulillah-e-Rabbil Aalameen

Peacemaking

Narrated Sahl bin Sad:
There was a dispute amongst the people of the tribe of Bani 'Amr bin 'Auf. The Prophet went to them along with some of his companions in order to make peace between them. The time for the prayer became due but the Prophet did not turn up; Bilal pronounced the Adhan (i.e. call) for the prayer but the Prophet did not turn up, so Bilal went to Abu Bakr and said, "The time for the prayer is due and the Prophet i detained, would you lead the people in the prayer?" Abu Bakr replied, "Yes, you wish." So, Bilal pronounced the Iqama of the prayer and Abu Bakr went ahead (to lead the prayer), but the Prophet came walking among the rows till he joined the first row. The people started clapping and they clapped too much, and Abu Bakr used not to look hither and thither in the prayer, but he turned round and saw the Prophet standing behind him. The Prophet beckoned him with his hand to keep on praying where he was. Abu Bakr raised his hand and praised Allah and then retreated till he came in the (first) row, and the Prophet went ahead and lead the people in the prayer. When the Prophet finished the prayer, he turned towards the people and said, "O people! When something happens to you during the prayer, you start clapping. Really clapping is (permissible) for women only. If something happens to one of you in his prayer, he should say: 'Subhan Allah', (Glorified be Allah), for whoever hears him (saying so) will direct his attention towards him. O Abu Bakr! What prevented you from leading the people in the prayer when I beckoned to you (to continue)?" Abu Bakr replied, "It did not befit the son of Abu Quhafa to lead the prayer in front of the Prophet.

Helping Yourself by Helping Others - Live a Happier Life Following Six Simple Tips

 

One of the best ways to improve your life is to help and be kind to others. The happiest times of my life have been the times that I was helping others. In this article I would like to talk about 6 tips that will really improve your relationship with others and enrich your own life.
Here are the 6 simple things you can to do for other that will enrich your own life:

1. Treat others the way you'd like to be treated. This is the golden rule. If you'd like others to show
you respect and be nice to you then you've show others kindness and respect.

2. Smile and look people in the eyes. This is a great way to show respect and kindness. When you smile and keep eye contact with others it shows that you're interested in what they've got to say.

3. Always be polite. Use words like please and thank you. People that are polite are a joy to be around. You'll notice a lot more people on your side when you're polite.

4. Be Confident in yourself but at the same time you must be humble. Nobody likes a person that is full of themselves. Be opened minded to the opinions of others and never judge people.

5. Look for the good in people. Don't get caught up in people's negatives, look for the good things that other portray. We all have negatives, and nobody likes when others point them out
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6. Listen! Listening is such a good quality to have. When someone sees that you you're truly listening to them it shows that you care about them and you're more concerned with them then yourself.


None of these tips should sound new to you, but I'm sure there's a few that you could work on. None of us are perfect but I know we'd all like to be happier; being kind to others is one of the best ways to achieve happiness in our own lives.

JUDGE NOT

Scripture cautions us not to be harsh and judgmental of others' faults, even where they are evident, because neither are we perfect and free from error. The admonition not to regard the speck in your neighbor's eye before removing the log from your own eye finds parallels in many scriptures. Rather than justify ourselves and blame others, we should look into ourselves for having such feelings of resentment. We should look into ourselves for where we may have been at fault, and from that starting point we can sincerely strive for reconciliation.

 According to islam
                    If you want to criticize someone, first criticize yourself more than three times. 


 "The good man does not grieve that other people do not recognize his merits. His only anxiety is lest he should fail to recognize theirs.



"He who treads the Path in earnest
Sees not the mistakes of the world;
If we find fault with others
We ourselves are also in the wrong.
When other people are in the wrong, we should ignore it,
For it is wrong for us to find fault.
By getting rid of this habit of fault-finding
We cut off a source of defilement.
When neither hatred nor love disturb our mind
Serenely we sleep.
  have blessed time :by
Ayesha

LOVE YOUR ENEMY

LOVE YOUR ENEMY

The prescription to love your enemy and to requite evil with good is sometimes thought of as an impractical and perfectionist ethic, able to be practiced only by a few exceptional souls. But, in fact, this doctrine is widely taught in all religions as a fundamental principle for pursuing relationships with others. The person who insists upon vengeance or retribution is not necessarily committing a crime, but neither will his act of revenge be helpful to spiritual advancement. Revenge, which requites evil with evil, only multiplies evil in the world, while love, by in which one strives to overcome evil with good, spreads goodness in the world. True love is unconditional and impartial--thus the metaphor of the sun that shines down on all life. It is tested and proven by encounters with those who are difficult to love. Where true love prevails, there no enemies are found.
The concluding passages dispute the prescription to love your enemy when it apparently contravenes the principles of justice and right. Sometimes the best way to love an evil person is to make him face justice, or to hinder him from doing wrong. Nevertheless, these corrective actions should be done with a loving heart and with the other person's welfare uppermost in mind.

"He abused me, he beat me, he defeated me, he robbed me!" In those who harbor such thoughts hatred is not appeased.
"He abused me, he beat me, he defeated me, he robbed me!" In those who do not harbor such thoughts hatred is appeased.
Hatreds never cease through hatred in this world; through love alone they cease. This is an eternal law.

You have heard that it was said, "You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy." But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven; for he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. For if you love those who love you, what reward have you? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? And if you salute only your brethren, what more are you doing than others?

Islam. Qur'an 60.7
Aid an enemy before you aid a friend, to subdue hatred. 

The good deed and the evil deed are not alike. Repel the evil deed with one which is better, then lo!, he between whom and you there was enmity shall become as though he were a bosom friend. But none is granted it save those who are steadfast, and none is granted it save a person of great good fortune.

According to Anas ibn Malik, the Prophet said, "Help your brother whether he is oppressor or oppressed."
According to Anas, after the Messenger of God said, "Help your brother whether he is oppressor or oppressed," Anas replied to him, "O Messenger of God, a man who is oppressed I am ready to help, but how does one help an oppressor?" "By hindering him doing wrong," he said.
Hadith of Bukhari

have a blessed time :by Ayesha