Don't you think She deserves more love.

Don't you think she deserves more love.

In this article I want to discuss about a creature about who nobody from us can say that he or she has never a relation with that creature. In fact everybody has a deep relation with this creature of God Almighty.
 In old times people mark the girls as a signs of bad luck and curse. In many nations it was a habit to bury their live daughters just after their birth. They thought through this act they can master their luck, and can turn it in to good luck. They also use to shed blood of their girls for their fake gods. If they would shed the blood of a virgin women, their god would reward them with good luck, wealth and health.
In our world women have been playing several roles. Like wife, daughter, sister and mother. All these roles are respectful. If we talk about a daughter, she take care of her parents. As a daughter she completes her duties, she respect her parents, she feed them when they reach to old age. Take care of their medicine etc.

As a sister she love her brothers and sisters, play with them. Wife completes her duties by being a modest, loving and good wife. She takes good care of you, your children and your house, but we do neglect all her efforts.

Today I want to grab your attention towards the most beautiful creature of this world MOTHER. A word full of love, try to say this word slowly and a little loudly, so that your ears can listen your voice. Try, it will free you from all the worries, tensions and you will feel yourself in trusted protection of your mothers arm.
How can we forget all the love, all the services she had given to us? When we grow up as much as we can take care of ourselves, how we can forget that now it is our time to payback all that love and care.
Why we let them die in the old houses. The raising trend of old houses is just because we don’t want our parents to interfere in our lives, such a cruelty.

 She sacrifices a lot of things for us. She risks her life to give birth to us. She suffers the pain of pregnancy for nine month. After giving birth to the child her duties not come to end. She nurses her child, take care the child. Her favors to us are countless.


How can we forget this beautiful creature of God? According to me she is a most wonderful blessing of God Almighty.

“Oh God I am really thankful to you from the bottom of my heart. That you have bless me with your most wonderful creature on this plant, and saves me from being one of the lists, who loses their mothers from the right beginning of their lives. I am thankful; to you that you have let me a chance to serve my mother although she is not with me now (may ALLAH give my mom in the best place in heaven), and I beg you for the strength so that we can take good care of our mothers”.

In the last I beg you all to pay attention to the woman, who has devoted all her life for you people.



THIS post dedicated to all women  including me :)
have a Blessed time by:
Ayesha

what women say and and what they really mean

She tells you she’ll accompany you to a dinner party, and she seems to really want to. Later on, though, she gets angry at you for having made her go. Sound familiar?

Men and women are very distinct creatures. While men have a tendency to be straightforward, women are often not so simple. When trying to understand what she really means, you are sometimes better off reading between the lines.

But don’t get disheartened just yet. The following cheat sheet with help you bridge the gap between what she means and what she says. From asking her out to being in a relationship to breaking up, the list below will equip you with all you need to know to understand what she’s really trying to tell you.

THE PURSUIT PHASE

She says: “I don’t want to ruin our friendship.”

What she means: I am not attracted to you, or I don’t feel enough chemistry to date you — but I do like you as friend.

Why she does this: She probably does want to remain friends, but doesn’t want to hurt your feelings by admitting that she doesn’t feel the same attraction for you.

What you should do: Don’t take it personally; she just doesn’t feel the same chemistry as you do. Take the hint and work on being friends with her, if that’s what you want.

She says: “I’m just so busy with work right now.”

What she means: I am not interested in fitting you into my schedule.

Why she does this: She wants to let you down easy. Instead of being blunt, she is hoping you’ll just get the picture.

What you should do: When a woman likes a man, she will always find time for him — no matter what her schedule is like. So don’t kid yourself into thinking that the situation might change. Instead, move on right away.

She says: “Are you seeing anyone right now?”

What she means: I might like to submit an application for the position of your girlfriend.

Why she does this: She wants to make sure she is not wasting her precious flirting energy on a man who is already spoken for.

What you should do: Answer honestly, and then hit her up for her phone number.

Things she says during the dating phase and what they really mean

THE DATING PHASE

She says: “Do you really want to go to that restaurant/movie/dinner party?”

What she means: I really don’t want to go to.

Why she does this: She doesn’t want to go, but she doesn’t want to appear stubborn either. She is probably hoping you’ll sense her hesitation and come up with an alternate plan that pleases her.

What you should do: If you have your heart set on going to that particular destination, stick to your guns. Otherwise, you might want to switch up in order to please her. Remember this: If you keep her happy, she’ll keep you happy.

She says: “You have a knack for dealing with kids. They really seem to respond to you.”

What she means: I am contemplating eventually having children with you and am wondering where you stand in that department.

Why she does this: An indirect question is her way of feeling you out without freaking you out.

What you should do: Don’t freak out. She is probably thinking very distantly into the future (yes, women do this). If, however, you absolutely positively know that you never want kids, this would be a good time to say it.

She says: “Where is this relationship going?”

What she means: I would like us to graduate to a more serious, exclusive relationship.

Why she does this: She wants you to be the one to suggest exclusivity.

What you should do: This depends on whether or not you actually want exclusivity. If so, suggest it. If not, let her know that you care about her, but are not interested in being exclusive right now.

She says: “I feel so close to you right now. You know me so well.”

What she means: I am starting to feel the l-word, but I don’t want to be the first to say it.

Why she does this: It’s a scary thing to be the first to say “I love you.” It’s much easier for her to hint and hope that you’ll take the plunge first.

What you should do: Do not — under any circumstances — say the l-word if you don’t mean it. If you do feel it, then go ahead; otherwise, don’t say anything. In the long run, you’ll be happy not to get entangled in such a lie.

She says: “I feel like our relationship is stuck in a routine right now.”

What she means: I want you to be more romantic and spontaneous, and surprise me more. I need you to pay more attention to my needs.

Why she does this: She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and admit that you are, in part, the cause of the rut.

What you should do: You don’t need to change your personality entirely, but it wouldn’t kill you to surprise her every once in a while. Call her out of the blue and tell her you’re taking her for dinner, go on a spontaneous weekend away, or just surprise her with her favorite chocolates.

What does it mean if she tells you some guy was flirting with her all night, if she asks whether you get along with your mother, and all those strange things she says when you’re breaking up

She says: “A man was flirting with me all night.”

What she means: Does it make you jealous?

Why she does this: She wants you to know that she’s a hot commodity and that other men are interested in her. She wants you to appreciate what you have.

What you should do: Don’t respond to it in a way she’ll expect, like by getting angry or jealous. Instead, pay her a compliment — she’s definitely fishing for it. Don’t get all insane with jealousy; just let her know what she means to you, or else she’ll be playing this card every so often to set you straight.

She says: “Do you get along well with your mother?”

What she means: Are you a family man

Why she does this: A man who gets along with his mother tends to be more loyal, sensitive and devoted — at least that’s the stereotype that a lot of women buy into.

What you should do: Talk about how close you and your mother are; you could even tell a couple of stories. Just enough to affirm that yes, you get along with her.

THE BREAKUP PHASE

She says: “I’m just not ready to make a commitment.”

What she means: I’m not ready to commit to you, and may never be.

Why she does this: She uses this tactic to soften the blow; nine times out of 10, this means that she doesn’t see a future with you… ever.

What you should do: Don’t stick around until she’s ready to make a commitment. Chances are, when she’s finally ready, it won’t be with you.

She says: “I think we should stay friends.”

What she means: I am trying to cut you out of my life gradually.

Why she does this: She thinks it would be easier to gradually stop seeing you instead of going cold turkey. She may even want to keep you around as a backup.

What you should do: Stay friends if you like. But don’t let yourself become the backup guy. If she wants to get back together down the line, ask yourself if she’s only doing it because she hasn’t found anyone else.

She says: “I’m not angry.”

What she means: I’m angry.

If she’s pursing her lips and not speaking to you, but claims she’s not angry, she’s probably bluffing. She could simply be bottling up her anger or she may think that her man should just know why she’s upset, without her having to tell him.

What you should do: Try to figure out why she’s upset and talk about it. The issue is not going to go away. In fact, if you don’t deal with it, she’ll just have bottled-up anger towards you and it’ll come back to bite you later.

She says: “I think of you as a brother.”

What she means: I’m not attracted to you.

It means she’s letting you know that she’s not into you, and may be it’s kinder than telling you the truth.

What you should do: In this case, just don’t make a move on her.

She says: “I like your friends, but…”

What she means: I don’t like your friends.

She doesn’t want to insult you or your friends, so she’s not telling you outright how much she dislikes them. She probably thinks they’re a bad company and wants you to hang out with them less.

What you should do: If she has a valid reason to dislike them, then you might take her concerns into consideration. Otherwise, simply tell her that your friends are equally important to you.

She says: “You don’t communicate enough.”

What she means: How do you feel about our relationship?

She wants to know what you feel where the relationship is going, but doesn’t want to come off as needy.

What you should do: Put her mind at ease and tell her what you think about the relationship.

She says: “Why don’t you try to kiss me like this?”

What she means: I don’t like the way you do it.

She doesn’t want to hurt your feelings. But this is not all bad, she likes you enough to want to work at it and make it better.

What you should do: Try it her way and see how it goes.

She says: “I really like that guy’s hair.”

What she means: I don’t like yours.

She figures that it’s a lot nicer to hint at this than to tell you outright.

What you should do: Get a second opinion on your hair. She may be right. But, if your second opinion tells you otherwise, feel free to stick to your guns and your hairstyle. In that case, just pretend that you didn’t get her hint.

READ BETWEEN THE FEMALE LINES

By now, you should know that a woman’s words can be very loaded. Unlike a man, she often uses hints and insinuations to steer you in her direction. Her way isn’t necessarily better or worse than yours — just different. But after perusing the above list, you should be armed and ready for any curve balls she might send your way.

The end

ME and MY father great moral story

When I was 4 Yrs Old : My father is THE BEST
When I was 6 Yrs Old : My father seems to know everyone
When I was 10 Yrs Old : My father is excellent but he is short tempered
When I was 12 Yrs Old : My father was nice when I was little
When I was 14 Yrs Old : My father started being too sensitive
When I was 16 Yrs Old : My father can’t keep up with modern time
When I was 18 Yrs Old : My father is getting less tolerant as the days pass by
When I was 20 Yrs Old : It is too hard to forgive my father, how could my Mum stand him all these years
When I was 25 Yrs Old : My father seems to be objecting to everything I do
When I was 30 Yrs Old: It’s very difficult to be in agreement with my father, I wonder if my Grandfather was troubled by my father when he was a youth
When I was 40 Yrs Old: My father brought me up with a lot of discipline, I must do the same
When I was 45 Yrs Old: I am puzzled, how did my father manage to raise all of us
When I was 50 Yrs Old : It’s rather difficult to control my kids, how much did my father suffer for the sake of upbringing and protecting us
When I was 55 Yrs Old: My father was far looking and had wide plans for us, he was gentle and outstanding. .
When I became 60 Yrs Old: My father is THE BEST
Note: it took 56 Yrs to complete the cycle and return to the starting point ‘My father is THE BEST ‘

Acid terrorism against women in pakistan very Gruesome

Think twice before you go into the pictures of the article.

If you are weak heated please skip…


Tribute to all women on 8th march  internaional womens day

by:Ayesha chaudhary

Introduction:
The Photos, Profiles and the reports you are about to see are horrific and really devastating. It’s not and shouldn’t be taken propaganda against the land and people of Pakistan which really owes me a lot. It can happen and perhaps happens anywhere in the world, east or west or in communities claiming to be belonging to any religion of faith. These are human beings that don’t deserve this; at all and. creating awareness by publishing them here might make deference for the good.
This is really horrible. Faces of these women were mutilated by acid, and this is the work of persons who call themselves men. This is such a strange way of solving problems (or revenge).
After the jump, you can look at these poor women and learn why the acid was thrown into their faces.

ira Liaqat, 26, poses for the camera as she holds a portrait of herself before being burned, at her home in Lahore, Pakistan, Wednesday, July 9, 2008. When she was fifteen, Saira was married to a relative who would later attack her with acid after insistently demanding her to live with him, although the families had agreed she wouldn’t join him until she finished school.
Saira has undergone plastic surgery 9 times to try to recover from her scars.

Irum Saeed, 30, poses for a photograph at her office at the Urdu University of Islamabad, Pakistan, Thursday, July 24, 2008. Irum was burned on her face, back and shoulders twelve years ago when a boy whom she rejected for marriage threw acid on her in the middle of the street. She has undergone plastic surgery 25 times to try to recover from her scars.

Shameem Akhter, 18, poses for a photograph at her home in Jhang, Pakistan, Wednesday, July 10, 2008. Shameem was raped by three boys who then threw acid on her three years ago. Shameem has undergone plastic surgery 10 times to try to recover from her scars.

Najaf Sultana, 16, poses for a photograph at her home in Lahore, Pakistan on Wednesday, July 9, 2008. At the age of five Najaf was burned by her father while she was sleeping, apparently because he didn’t want to have another girl in the family. As a result of the burning  Najaf became blind and after being abandoned by both her parents she now lives with relatives. She has undergone plastic surgery around 15 times to try to recover from her scars.

Shehnaz Usman, 36, poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Sunday, Oct. 26, 2008. Shehnaz was burned with acid by a relative due to a familial dispute five years ago. Shehnaz has undergone plastic surgery 10 times to try to recover from her scars.

Shahnaz Bibi, 35, poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Sunday, Oct. 26, 2008. Ten years ago Shahnaz was burned with acid by a relative due to a familial dispute. She has never undergone plastic surgery.

Kanwal Kayum, 26, adjusts her veil as she poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Sunday, Oct. 26, 2008. Kanwal was burned with acid one year ago by a boy whom she rejected for marriage. She has never undergone plastic surgery.

Munira Asef, 23, poses for a photograph in Lahore, Pakistan, Sunday, Oct. 26, 2008. Munira was burned with acid five years ago by a boy whom she rejected for marriage. She has undergone plastic surgery 7 times to try to recover from her scars.
Bushra Shari, 39 was burned with acid thrown by herhusband five years ago because she was trying to divorce him. She has undergone plastic surgery 25 times to try to recover from her scars.

Memuna Khan, 21, poses for a photograph in Karachi, Pakistan, Friday, Dec. 19, 2008. Menuna was burned by a group of boys who threw acid on her to settle a dispute between their family and Menuna’s. She has undergone plastic surgery 21 times to try to recover from her scars.

Zainab Bibi, 17, adjusts her veil as she poses for a photograph in Islamabad, Pakistan, Wednesday, Dec. 24, 2008. Zainab was burned on her face with acid thrown by a boy whom she rejected for marriage five years ago. She has undergone plastic surgery several  times to try to recover from her scars.

Naila Farhat, 19, poses for a photograph in Islamabad, Pakistan, Wednesday, Dec. 24, 2008. Naila was burned on her face with acid thrown by a boy whom she rejected for marriage five years ago. She has undergone plastic surgery several times to try to recover from her scars.
Conclusion
On the other hand: Many men just came back home from work for their family and discovered inside their bed room their wife sleeping with another strange man! Imagine!
Just Imagine! What it’s like for the fathers of these innocent daughters, or the brothers whose sisters are mutilated by a man like him, the anger, the frustration and the kind of revenge those guys(s) deserve from the relatives of these poor girls!!! Although nothing will restore the natural beauty that Allah generously gave them in the first place